James,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear wife Carole. Please accept my deepest sympathy to you and your wife. May God comfort you during this difficult time. 2Cor. 1:3,4
I would like to offer my deepest condolences to the Boyce family. Losing a loved one is never easy. However, the Bible offers us a wonderful hope for the future (John 5:28,29). May the God of all comfort strengthen you during this difficult time.